Acumen: I'm sure you know that the heading of this board is correct, and that this isn't place limited to Christian exegesis. My only point is that, at least with Christian exegesis, there is something to debate. We can debate the meaning of words, historical and textual context, and an author's intent. However, when it comes to using one's lack of experience to judge the presence of someone else's experience, it sort of ends the debate rather immediately.
Jack: Methinks I am being pidgeon-holed a bit here as one who "lacks experience" in Christian spirituality in order to shut me up. Perhaps a truer statement might be that I lack experience coming to the same conclusions you have as I have wrestled with these issues all my too-long life, perhaps more than some for whom the conclusions come easily. Even among believers "spirituality" takes many forms and I submit that coming to conclusions other than those perpetuated by mainstream Christian organizations are valid, at least for discussion.
I don't know about being pigeon-holed, Jack. If I believe that God exists because I've experienced His presence in church service, at home, or abroad; and you don't believe He exists because you doubt the veracity of divine experiences, then there isn't much more to add in terms of debate. Your lack of divine experience cannot logically be used to rebut my divine experiences. At most, you can only say that you doubt it based upon your lack of experiencing what I experience.
Or is your belief so narrow it can only be discussed and explained to those in complete agreement? I personally don't have much sympathy as I am constantly having to explain and defend my beliefs to theist doubters. justifying oneself comes with the territory for those who stray from the mainstream.
Of course, such is par for the course. However, I'm only at odds with you on this particular issue of divine experiences. If, for instance, we were to debate the existence of objective morality from a Christian paradigm, then the debate is worth having because it involves more than just a stalemate of experiences. We could debate relativism, a purpose-driven life, the afterlife, and anything else that is relevant to correct human conduct. But this issue about the existence of God and subsequent experiences is sort of a useless debate if you cannot relate to my experiences.